your love for someone gives you no right to manipulate them and turn them away from what they want, what is best for them, and what will help them to grow, because you want them to stay or even if it is to protect them you don’t get to have that control you’re not the one…

be aware of who you surround yourself with just because they’re family does not mean they have your best interest at hand if you use the word family to set high expectations you are going to give them all the power to hurt you when you allow their actions to disappoint you they themselves won’t…